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Emotional granularity

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When you just feel "bad"

Some days you just feel "bad." The word covers a lot.

Under one "bad" can hide many different feelings.

You might be angry. Or scared. Or tired. Or lonely.

Those feel different in the body. But "bad" blurs them together.

Researcher Lisa Feldman Barrett studies this blur.

She found people sort their feelings in different ways.

Some can only say how good or bad they feel.

Others tell apart anger, fear, being worn out, and being lonely.

emotional granularity
How finely a person tells feelings apart, instead of just "good" or "bad."

Picture two people in the same hard moment.

One feels a vague stomachache and calls it "bad."

The other, with more feeling words, names it "anger."

Same moment. Two ways of reading it.

Match

Each moment below feels "bad." But a sharper feeling hides inside. Match them up.

Tap one side, then its match

"Bad" is real. It is just blurry.

And a blurry feeling can be brought into focus.

"I just feel bad, and that's all there is to it."Tap to reveal

It feels complete because "bad" is one word. But separate feelings sit under it. Anger and loneliness can be told apart.

Sources

  • Lisa Feldman Barrett
  • Matthew Lieberman, UCLA, 2007
  • Lisa Feldman Barrett, How Emotions Are Made (2017)
  • Marc Brackett, Permission to Feel (2019)
  • Marc Brackett, Permission to Feel
  • Kashdan, Ferssizidis, Collins & Muraven, Psychological Science, 2010